Is there any hope for me?

Is there any hope for me?

Joined: March 4th, 2012, 2:54 pm

March 4th, 2012, 3:40 pm #1

At first,I want to salute all good people here! I am not from America so I maybe will have "some language" mistakes, I apologize for that! I am still learning English...

So,let's start
I was never do any exercise for my problem. When I WAS NOT in erectile state I could see only 40 % of penis head,in erect maybe 8 mm. In august (2011) I was started some basic exercises (when I urinate) and after 10-15 days I saw results. (50% when I was not erect,and maybe 1 cm in erect) After this period,I stopped with exercises (I know,I am fool!) I was have some kind of fear. What if I hurt my self?

I am twenty now. Yesterday (3.3.2012) First time in my life I saw my penis head. I was not erect.(It's Little getting stuck on head, but if I push harder skin is back forward. In The erectile state I can see only 35% of my penis head. I did some exercises before 3 days. Only stretching in hot water 45 minutes in the morning and about one hour at bedtime. am I in right way???

Because!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I heard that at his age (20) is impossible to cure phimosis? Circumcision is inevitable! Please tell me if there is hope for me to heal? I do not want to have surgery BUT IF THE NECESSARY I WILL DO.

I am very afraid! I can not sleep! What will be with me? With my sex life,CAN I HAVE SEX without problems IN THIS STATE? I had a lot of girls but unfortunately or fortunately we have not reached sexual. Please answer me... I apologize so much for my language mistakes,I hope that you can underestand me!

Big salute people!!!
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Joined: June 5th, 2003, 4:12 am

March 4th, 2012, 9:49 pm #2

Your comments here indicate that you have not yet used this resource here. You need to do a lot of reading - on this discussion board, not anywhere else.

You refer to having done some "basic" exercises. But not the exact exercises we explain here, have you? That is for a start, an important difference.

You point out that you have not persisted with exercises. Well, your skin does not "magically" stretch when it does not need to (and you obviously would not want it to!). If you do the exercises - the ones we explain here, not just random things you read elsewhere on the Internet, with persistence, a few times for a number of minutes at least, every day, then from the point at which you are presently, you can sort out your problem.

Circumcision is (except in the extremely rare case of extensive cancer,) never indicated. It is nothing more than deliberate mutilation of the penis with the sole purpose of impairing sexual function. Your sexual function is just fine - I would be shocked if as a 20 year old you had not been masturbating with complete enjoyment for at the very least seven years, so you are already "having sex". What do you imagine would be any different, or cause a problem with having any form of sex with a young lady? Other than plain unfamiliarity with each other?

You must be reading absurdly stupid websites if you have "heard" that curing "phimosis" at 20 is impossible. What websites - or other source of misinformation - would this be?
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Joined: March 23rd, 2003, 5:51 am

March 5th, 2012, 1:20 am #3

At first,I want to salute all good people here! I am not from America so I maybe will have "some language" mistakes, I apologize for that! I am still learning English...

So,let's start
I was never do any exercise for my problem. When I WAS NOT in erectile state I could see only 40 % of penis head,in erect maybe 8 mm. In august (2011) I was started some basic exercises (when I urinate) and after 10-15 days I saw results. (50% when I was not erect,and maybe 1 cm in erect) After this period,I stopped with exercises (I know,I am fool!) I was have some kind of fear. What if I hurt my self?

I am twenty now. Yesterday (3.3.2012) First time in my life I saw my penis head. I was not erect.(It's Little getting stuck on head, but if I push harder skin is back forward. In The erectile state I can see only 35% of my penis head. I did some exercises before 3 days. Only stretching in hot water 45 minutes in the morning and about one hour at bedtime. am I in right way???

Because!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I heard that at his age (20) is impossible to cure phimosis? Circumcision is inevitable! Please tell me if there is hope for me to heal? I do not want to have surgery BUT IF THE NECESSARY I WILL DO.

I am very afraid! I can not sleep! What will be with me? With my sex life,CAN I HAVE SEX without problems IN THIS STATE? I had a lot of girls but unfortunately or fortunately we have not reached sexual. Please answer me... I apologize so much for my language mistakes,I hope that you can underestand me!

Big salute people!!!
You can do this at any age. Down the page, I posted a link to a site which tells you exactly what to do and how often to do it. Do it!
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March 5th, 2012, 6:35 am #4

Your comments here indicate that you have not yet used this resource here. You need to do a lot of reading - on this discussion board, not anywhere else.

You refer to having done some "basic" exercises. But not the exact exercises we explain here, have you? That is for a start, an important difference.

You point out that you have not persisted with exercises. Well, your skin does not "magically" stretch when it does not need to (and you obviously would not want it to!). If you do the exercises - the ones we explain here, not just random things you read elsewhere on the Internet, with persistence, a few times for a number of minutes at least, every day, then from the point at which you are presently, you can sort out your problem.

Circumcision is (except in the extremely rare case of extensive cancer,) never indicated. It is nothing more than deliberate mutilation of the penis with the sole purpose of impairing sexual function. Your sexual function is just fine - I would be shocked if as a 20 year old you had not been masturbating with complete enjoyment for at the very least seven years, so you are already "having sex". What do you imagine would be any different, or cause a problem with having any form of sex with a young lady? Other than plain unfamiliarity with each other?

You must be reading absurdly stupid websites if you have "heard" that curing "phimosis" at 20 is impossible. What websites - or other source of misinformation - would this be?
Thank you man! You are great guy!
In the last few days I started some exercises that I have read here and some that I already knew. I will not give up, especially now when I have seen "big" progress. Unfortunately, in my country these problems are usually solved circumcision. Therefore, many people over the internet that I asked for an opinion, they told me that best thing for me is to be circumcised.Now, I saw many people here who have great results! That gives me great confidence!

I have two "little" question ?

1) Now, when I can pull the skin all the way back when I am flaccid (With some little difficulty,very little!) I feel that skin on penis head is little pulled back even if I not working exercises.When I am in my underwear, I feel some kind of sensitivity (penis head sensitivity) when sometimes come into contact with the underwear. (This is little weird and a little discomfort) Is this normal? Do I need to avoid the contact or ignore and just "live life normally"


2) Do you want to see the pictures? I can upload some of them.Then you can just give me a precise exercise for my problem.

Thank you very much for answering me! And,again,sorry about language mistakes... I know it seems that I am very uneducated, but I will do my best. Thank you again!
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March 5th, 2012, 6:44 am #5

You can do this at any age. Down the page, I posted a link to a site which tells you exactly what to do and how often to do it. Do it!
Hey Jim! Thank you! Can you place that link here? In this topic? I'm not sure which link do you think? ))
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Joined: March 23rd, 2003, 5:51 am

March 5th, 2012, 2:54 pm #6

All entries on this page are important to you, so reading them is important to your success.

http://www.network54.com/Forum/244184/t ... to+stretch
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Joined: March 23rd, 2003, 5:51 am

March 5th, 2012, 2:55 pm #7

Thank you man! You are great guy!
In the last few days I started some exercises that I have read here and some that I already knew. I will not give up, especially now when I have seen "big" progress. Unfortunately, in my country these problems are usually solved circumcision. Therefore, many people over the internet that I asked for an opinion, they told me that best thing for me is to be circumcised.Now, I saw many people here who have great results! That gives me great confidence!

I have two "little" question ?

1) Now, when I can pull the skin all the way back when I am flaccid (With some little difficulty,very little!) I feel that skin on penis head is little pulled back even if I not working exercises.When I am in my underwear, I feel some kind of sensitivity (penis head sensitivity) when sometimes come into contact with the underwear. (This is little weird and a little discomfort) Is this normal? Do I need to avoid the contact or ignore and just "live life normally"


2) Do you want to see the pictures? I can upload some of them.Then you can just give me a precise exercise for my problem.

Thank you very much for answering me! And,again,sorry about language mistakes... I know it seems that I am very uneducated, but I will do my best. Thank you again!
What is your country?
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March 5th, 2012, 3:13 pm #8

All entries on this page are important to you, so reading them is important to your success.

http://www.network54.com/Forum/244184/t ... to+stretch
Ok, I will do this exercises. I hope that will give results .My country is one of many Balkanish countries. With very strong ortodox rules and radical medicine : ) ... You maybe never heard anything about Serbia?

So tell me,in my post about 2 questions here,what you think about first one? You give me good hope,Jim. You are great guy! : )
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Joined: March 23rd, 2003, 5:51 am

March 5th, 2012, 9:51 pm #9

Whatever we hear about Serbia is filtered through the news media which tells us what they believe. No different from what you hear about us!

Live life normally. The glans must eventually accommodate exposure and touching. Each time you pee, attempt to retract.

If you wish to post pictures, be our guest.
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Joined: June 5th, 2003, 4:12 am

March 5th, 2012, 9:54 pm #10

Thank you man! You are great guy!
In the last few days I started some exercises that I have read here and some that I already knew. I will not give up, especially now when I have seen "big" progress. Unfortunately, in my country these problems are usually solved circumcision. Therefore, many people over the internet that I asked for an opinion, they told me that best thing for me is to be circumcised.Now, I saw many people here who have great results! That gives me great confidence!

I have two "little" question ?

1) Now, when I can pull the skin all the way back when I am flaccid (With some little difficulty,very little!) I feel that skin on penis head is little pulled back even if I not working exercises.When I am in my underwear, I feel some kind of sensitivity (penis head sensitivity) when sometimes come into contact with the underwear. (This is little weird and a little discomfort) Is this normal? Do I need to avoid the contact or ignore and just "live life normally"


2) Do you want to see the pictures? I can upload some of them.Then you can just give me a precise exercise for my problem.

Thank you very much for answering me! And,again,sorry about language mistakes... I know it seems that I am very uneducated, but I will do my best. Thank you again!
Read more - lots more - on this website. The things we recommend are focused on getting results most efficiently - the quickest progress with the least effort though there most certainly is substantial effort involved. It is however, not at all unusual for people to put considerable effort into daily practice for body-building, sporting success and musical accomplishment, so expecting people to perform what we advise for a significant amount of time every day is not that much of an "ask".

I mention this as you stated "some exercises that I have read here and some that I already knew". I wonder just what the ones that you "already knew" are? If that relates to simply pulling your foreskin back, then I feel this is actually wasting time and effort because any improvements with be very slow indeed - it is of course the "natural" means by which the foreskin is normally stretched to become easily mobile but - over years of use and growth!

What we recommend is the "fingers inside" method Jim illustrates. There are alternatives, but they do not relate to alternative versions of the "problem", but rather to different ways of achieving the same effect using devices crafted (notably, hand-crafted) to "do the job for you" as you can wear them for significant periods while you do other things, even all day (and night). Such milder but persistent stretching is generally the most effective method but requires some craft skills.

And there are - for almost everyone - two specific objectives and therefore two parallel types of exercise to be performed; the second being to stretch the frænulum. Again, I really do not need to explain it in this thread, reading back will locate it.

Yes, no doubt it is common in your (which?) country to "solve" such problems with circumcision, and for people to recommend it. This only demonstrates the most profound ignorance which surrounds sexual function, how disturbingly little doctors value sexual function in their deliberations and how little people actually perceive in their everyday life (and sexual exploits). Of course you can function without a foreskin as a quarter of the world's population do. But then, a similar (but separate) proportion of the world's population are malnourished and they also survive to an extent. Both things are regrettable, both stem from ignorance, greed and malice.

You are most welcome to post pictures but we do not need them to determine your problem or specific exercises as your problem is essentially universal and its management as we consistently describe. If you do post such for our curiosity, you would sadly need to do so not to the common photo sharing sites because due to the prevailing profound ignorance that I describe, they will be promptly censored. As you browse through the previous postings - as you do need to do, you will find other photos and note that the ones that persist are generally hosted on pornographic sharing sites! I do find that sad, but they serve a purpose.

Your glans (penis head) will feel uncomfortable touching dry underwear if it has not done so before. This will settle with time and is of no concern. It illustrates that the purpose of the glans is for contact only with the lubricated surfaces of a woman's vulva and vagina, the foreskin's purpose is to keep it protected at all other times.



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