I greatly appreciate your concern Vistrix and I am sorry that your candy exchange was a bust but I must say in KaizFrost's defense, Last year in S.S. I was wonderfully gifted with A Songbird Pendant ocarina from her.
I am willing to give her a chance again this year. If things fall though, She won't be allowed next year. After that, I always assume FULL responsibility to make it up to the one on the receiving end of a gifting.
Conversly, KaizFrost, If you feel you will be too busy during the month of November to partake in Secret Santa, then please do both yourself and your potential Gifter a favor and bow out rather than take the chance of hurting both your reputation and the feelings of another. There is always next year.