If the Spirit OF Christ is a being EQUAL in all respects to God, do you believe that you can use a fire extinguisher on Him? Paul often uses parallelism and that is why Peter said that unstable people wrest His words to their own destruction.
1Thessalonians 5:19 Quench
.....not the Spirit.
Ex-stinguo (ext- ) to put out what is burning, to quench, extinguish
to deprive of life or strength, to kill, destroy: to abolish, destroy, annihilate, annul
Sbennu_mi to be quenched, go out, of fire, metaph. of men, become extinct, die,
2. of liquids, run dry, goats which are going off their milk, generally, to be quelled or lulled, of wind,
Jeremiah 23:27 Which think to cause my people to forget my name by their dreams which they tell every man to his neighbour, as their fathers have forgotten my name for Baal.
Jeremiah 23:28 The prophet that hath a dream, let him tell a dream; and he that hath my word, him speak my WORD faithfully. What is the chaff to the wheat? saith the LORD.
Jeremiah 23:29 Is not my WORD like as a FIRE? saith the LORD; and like a hammer that breaketh the rock in pieces?
Since by definition of words it is not likely that you can EXTINGUISH a Co-Member of a god family, we are not left without testimony that you CAN destroy the WORD which IS SPIRIT or the Mind of God by tampering with it or simply not having any time for it during "worship services" needing a Ticket where people say that "a" spirit told him to sow massive discord.
The proof that you have A holy spirit (yours) and the condition of the mutual abiding with Father-Son is teaching and observing what Christ commanded in the prophets and apostles. The inclusive-exclusive pattern is to PREACH the Word by READING the Word or "using one mind and one mouth speaking that which is written for our learning." Jesus asks you to be His Disciple without having to be speakers, singers, players, actors or jugglers to get HIS attention.