Really, 'Anonymous'?

Really, 'Anonymous'?

Sara H
Sara H

June 27th, 2012, 2:04 pm #1

(Continued from post below, but I know this is probably about to cause a storm so I started a new post, so that the new member would not feel this was, in any way, about her.)

Your comment:
"She came her for advice, not guidelines on how to use the board!"

The note was not for you, it was for her.

These are the same notes I have posted for people for 3 years and EVERYONE, but you, finds them helpful. These are things I would have found helpful when I first joined and I was JUST TOLD on the PG board that other people have found them valuable.

You, without a name to stand behind, just chose to be snarky and see the negative.

Some of us try to help, not just make snide comments in some hit and run. Maybe you need a reminder, read the top of the page, there is no anonymous posting allowed.

I have to guess you are the same anonymous from below, not that anyone could tell since you chose to hide, who tells people who are scared that they "need to breath"?

"i think you need to breathe" as you said.

I have not posted here in a while and just started trying to help again. This kind of response it JUST the reason why.

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June 27th, 2012, 2:11 pm #2

You are a sweetheart. Dont let it get you down. I guess there was a big raincloud somewhere.
Me- 30
Day 3- FSH 10.4, E2 42; Day 10- 16.6; Possible endo, slight anti sperm antibodies
DH- 30, low Morph
TTC 23 Cycles
2 Cycles on Clomid- BFN
3 Cycles on Femara & IUI- BFN
Now- Natural plus antioxidants, Acu/Herbs till IVF when we're ready emotionally
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June 27th, 2012, 2:11 pm #3

Rude to Hadas also (nt)
Me- 30
Day 3- FSH 10.4, E2 42; Day 10- 16.6; Possible endo, slight anti sperm antibodies
DH- 30, low Morph
TTC 23 Cycles
2 Cycles on Clomid- BFN
3 Cycles on Femara & IUI- BFN
Now- Natural plus antioxidants, Acu/Herbs till IVF when we're ready emotionally
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Sara H
Sara H

June 27th, 2012, 2:13 pm #4

:-) Thanks, Alli! (NT)
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Jamie
Jamie

June 27th, 2012, 2:13 pm #5

(Continued from post below, but I know this is probably about to cause a storm so I started a new post, so that the new member would not feel this was, in any way, about her.)

Your comment:
"She came her for advice, not guidelines on how to use the board!"

The note was not for you, it was for her.

These are the same notes I have posted for people for 3 years and EVERYONE, but you, finds them helpful. These are things I would have found helpful when I first joined and I was JUST TOLD on the PG board that other people have found them valuable.

You, without a name to stand behind, just chose to be snarky and see the negative.

Some of us try to help, not just make snide comments in some hit and run. Maybe you need a reminder, read the top of the page, there is no anonymous posting allowed.

I have to guess you are the same anonymous from below, not that anyone could tell since you chose to hide, who tells people who are scared that they "need to breath"?

"i think you need to breathe" as you said.

I have not posted here in a while and just started trying to help again. This kind of response it JUST the reason why.
I hear you. It is so annoying and cowardly that someone wants to say something snarky to us but doesn't have the decency to post with her name so that all may judge her post. I am pretty sure that I know who commented anon on my post, and it's a very well-known poster who has received tons of support and sympathy from everyone there, including me. It is a nasty stealth attack that brings the whole tenor of the board down.

Other women have received this treatment and some have been driven away from the boards. I refuse to go. This board was a lifeline for me in my darkest days and I am going to keep posting whether cowardly people want to attack me. They are showing their character and integrity through their behavior, and I refuse to let it determine my decisions.
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June 27th, 2012, 2:20 pm #6

Just saw that Jamie.
Me- 30
Day 3- FSH 10.4, E2 42; Day 10- 16.6; Possible endo, slight anti sperm antibodies
DH- 30, low Morph
TTC 23 Cycles
2 Cycles on Clomid- BFN
3 Cycles on Femara & IUI- BFN
Now- Natural plus antioxidants, Acu/Herbs till IVF when we're ready emotionally
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Jamie
Jamie

June 27th, 2012, 2:33 pm #7

If you read how the person writes and the person's particular issues/beef with me, I think it's rather obvious.

Anyway, I know that you've received this treatment too, Alli, and I'm glad that you are still here.
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Houston
Houston

June 27th, 2012, 4:02 pm #8

(Continued from post below, but I know this is probably about to cause a storm so I started a new post, so that the new member would not feel this was, in any way, about her.)

Your comment:
"She came her for advice, not guidelines on how to use the board!"

The note was not for you, it was for her.

These are the same notes I have posted for people for 3 years and EVERYONE, but you, finds them helpful. These are things I would have found helpful when I first joined and I was JUST TOLD on the PG board that other people have found them valuable.

You, without a name to stand behind, just chose to be snarky and see the negative.

Some of us try to help, not just make snide comments in some hit and run. Maybe you need a reminder, read the top of the page, there is no anonymous posting allowed.

I have to guess you are the same anonymous from below, not that anyone could tell since you chose to hide, who tells people who are scared that they "need to breath"?

"i think you need to breathe" as you said.

I have not posted here in a while and just started trying to help again. This kind of response it JUST the reason why.
There is no reason to be mean to anyone on these boards. If you are thinking something rude, enough so that you know not to post your name, you should probably think it to yourself and not write it. The purpose of these boards is to support one another. I understand anon may have some issues as a result of infertility, and perhaps that is causing you to act out in this manner, but it really is not helpful at all.
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Houston
Houston

June 27th, 2012, 4:03 pm #9

I have no idea who is doing this. I haven't had a chance to try and figure it out. So, anon, please don't take this comment personally, I am just trying to be helpful and prevent you from hurting others with mean comments.
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Hadas
Hadas

June 27th, 2012, 6:10 pm #10

Rude to Hadas also (nt)
I thought so, too, as you could tell based on my reply, but I didn't want to pursue that further.

Thanks!
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