Just got the results of my beta

Just got the results of my beta

Joined: October 22nd, 2010, 7:15 am

April 14th, 2011, 6:13 pm #1

and I wanted to let everyone know that it was a BFN.

I wasn't sure how I'd feel if we ended up with a negative beta. I didn't really have any real highs or lows during the cycle. I was very optimistic and positive, and I still feel that way. I believe that we will have another child in the future, but since I am not the keeper of time, I am not sure when that will be. I do know that we have a responsibility to do all we can do to make sure the process progresses. So yes we are disappointed, but we are happy to be able to move forward. I hope I don't sound callous, because this whole process -- each step -- is a big deal... I just feel like this is one of the steps in this IVF process that we unfortunately, are having to walk through. We'll see what the next one is.

Thanks for all your support through this cycle...You have all been truly wonderful. I'll be leaning on you all again as we move forward...

Hugs to all!!!
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ks
ks

April 14th, 2011, 7:01 pm #2

I'm so sorry to hear that this cycle was a bust. Please know I am thinking of you! ((hugs))

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Joined: May 20th, 2008, 4:36 am

April 14th, 2011, 7:32 pm #3

and I wanted to let everyone know that it was a BFN.

I wasn't sure how I'd feel if we ended up with a negative beta. I didn't really have any real highs or lows during the cycle. I was very optimistic and positive, and I still feel that way. I believe that we will have another child in the future, but since I am not the keeper of time, I am not sure when that will be. I do know that we have a responsibility to do all we can do to make sure the process progresses. So yes we are disappointed, but we are happy to be able to move forward. I hope I don't sound callous, because this whole process -- each step -- is a big deal... I just feel like this is one of the steps in this IVF process that we unfortunately, are having to walk through. We'll see what the next one is.

Thanks for all your support through this cycle...You have all been truly wonderful. I'll be leaning on you all again as we move forward...

Hugs to all!!!
I'm so sorry that this cycle did not work for you, but you have the best attitude. I know it really helps that you are in a guaranteed program to move forward and attempt again. It is also definitely a learning process. I, like you, just knew that I may not have success on my first attempt. I guess b/c I had lining issues as well as others. It so amazing how mechanical this process becomes and it is a wonder that anyone can conceive on their own.

Sending many hugs and will be cheering you on the next go around. Be good to yourself.
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Mrs. M
Mrs. M

April 14th, 2011, 7:40 pm #4

and I wanted to let everyone know that it was a BFN.

I wasn't sure how I'd feel if we ended up with a negative beta. I didn't really have any real highs or lows during the cycle. I was very optimistic and positive, and I still feel that way. I believe that we will have another child in the future, but since I am not the keeper of time, I am not sure when that will be. I do know that we have a responsibility to do all we can do to make sure the process progresses. So yes we are disappointed, but we are happy to be able to move forward. I hope I don't sound callous, because this whole process -- each step -- is a big deal... I just feel like this is one of the steps in this IVF process that we unfortunately, are having to walk through. We'll see what the next one is.

Thanks for all your support through this cycle...You have all been truly wonderful. I'll be leaning on you all again as we move forward...

Hugs to all!!!
Take care of your self. With that positive attitude you have I'm sure you will succeed. (((((HUGS))))
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Joined: December 8th, 2006, 11:41 pm

April 14th, 2011, 9:01 pm #5

and I wanted to let everyone know that it was a BFN.

I wasn't sure how I'd feel if we ended up with a negative beta. I didn't really have any real highs or lows during the cycle. I was very optimistic and positive, and I still feel that way. I believe that we will have another child in the future, but since I am not the keeper of time, I am not sure when that will be. I do know that we have a responsibility to do all we can do to make sure the process progresses. So yes we are disappointed, but we are happy to be able to move forward. I hope I don't sound callous, because this whole process -- each step -- is a big deal... I just feel like this is one of the steps in this IVF process that we unfortunately, are having to walk through. We'll see what the next one is.

Thanks for all your support through this cycle...You have all been truly wonderful. I'll be leaning on you all again as we move forward...

Hugs to all!!!
I so wish it was a better result for you. Despite the bad news, still your lovely post inspires me. I hope I can have a little of your strength as I move forward with my first attempt at DE soon. I believe too in your sentiments that you will have another child in the future and wish you luck with your next step.
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Joined: March 1st, 2010, 1:53 am

April 14th, 2011, 9:57 pm #6

and I wanted to let everyone know that it was a BFN.

I wasn't sure how I'd feel if we ended up with a negative beta. I didn't really have any real highs or lows during the cycle. I was very optimistic and positive, and I still feel that way. I believe that we will have another child in the future, but since I am not the keeper of time, I am not sure when that will be. I do know that we have a responsibility to do all we can do to make sure the process progresses. So yes we are disappointed, but we are happy to be able to move forward. I hope I don't sound callous, because this whole process -- each step -- is a big deal... I just feel like this is one of the steps in this IVF process that we unfortunately, are having to walk through. We'll see what the next one is.

Thanks for all your support through this cycle...You have all been truly wonderful. I'll be leaning on you all again as we move forward...

Hugs to all!!!
I'm so sorry. You sound so strong, and have a great attitude, not to mention you're a great cheerleader for the rest of us. Treat yourself a little bit extra as you regroup. I look forward to your future posts.
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Newbie
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April 14th, 2011, 10:15 pm #7

and I wanted to let everyone know that it was a BFN.

I wasn't sure how I'd feel if we ended up with a negative beta. I didn't really have any real highs or lows during the cycle. I was very optimistic and positive, and I still feel that way. I believe that we will have another child in the future, but since I am not the keeper of time, I am not sure when that will be. I do know that we have a responsibility to do all we can do to make sure the process progresses. So yes we are disappointed, but we are happy to be able to move forward. I hope I don't sound callous, because this whole process -- each step -- is a big deal... I just feel like this is one of the steps in this IVF process that we unfortunately, are having to walk through. We'll see what the next one is.

Thanks for all your support through this cycle...You have all been truly wonderful. I'll be leaning on you all again as we move forward...

Hugs to all!!!
I am sorry to hear your news. Know that there are a lot of people pulling for you and you have a great attitude towards it all.
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April 14th, 2011, 11:24 pm #8

and I wanted to let everyone know that it was a BFN.

I wasn't sure how I'd feel if we ended up with a negative beta. I didn't really have any real highs or lows during the cycle. I was very optimistic and positive, and I still feel that way. I believe that we will have another child in the future, but since I am not the keeper of time, I am not sure when that will be. I do know that we have a responsibility to do all we can do to make sure the process progresses. So yes we are disappointed, but we are happy to be able to move forward. I hope I don't sound callous, because this whole process -- each step -- is a big deal... I just feel like this is one of the steps in this IVF process that we unfortunately, are having to walk through. We'll see what the next one is.

Thanks for all your support through this cycle...You have all been truly wonderful. I'll be leaning on you all again as we move forward...

Hugs to all!!!
I really am so sorry for you. Take time to heal. Feel better
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minniet
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April 15th, 2011, 12:30 am #9

and I wanted to let everyone know that it was a BFN.

I wasn't sure how I'd feel if we ended up with a negative beta. I didn't really have any real highs or lows during the cycle. I was very optimistic and positive, and I still feel that way. I believe that we will have another child in the future, but since I am not the keeper of time, I am not sure when that will be. I do know that we have a responsibility to do all we can do to make sure the process progresses. So yes we are disappointed, but we are happy to be able to move forward. I hope I don't sound callous, because this whole process -- each step -- is a big deal... I just feel like this is one of the steps in this IVF process that we unfortunately, are having to walk through. We'll see what the next one is.

Thanks for all your support through this cycle...You have all been truly wonderful. I'll be leaning on you all again as we move forward...

Hugs to all!!!
Your attitude is inspirational. I hope you take a little time to take care of yourself.
Hugs to you --
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Joined: September 6th, 2007, 1:40 am

April 15th, 2011, 4:50 am #10

and I wanted to let everyone know that it was a BFN.

I wasn't sure how I'd feel if we ended up with a negative beta. I didn't really have any real highs or lows during the cycle. I was very optimistic and positive, and I still feel that way. I believe that we will have another child in the future, but since I am not the keeper of time, I am not sure when that will be. I do know that we have a responsibility to do all we can do to make sure the process progresses. So yes we are disappointed, but we are happy to be able to move forward. I hope I don't sound callous, because this whole process -- each step -- is a big deal... I just feel like this is one of the steps in this IVF process that we unfortunately, are having to walk through. We'll see what the next one is.

Thanks for all your support through this cycle...You have all been truly wonderful. I'll be leaning on you all again as we move forward...

Hugs to all!!!
That is so disappointing, I know.

Take some time for yourself.

I was really really really really really hoping and thinking it would work out.

This thing is such a roller coaster but in your case it seems like bad luck with the embryos and so that means you will probably succeed next time.

But damn I wish it had been this time.

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