I'm Back (Peanut 34)...A Way We go!

I'm Back (Peanut 34)...A Way We go!

Joined: May 23rd, 2012, 2:29 am

May 23rd, 2012, 2:43 am #1

Hello Ladies,

I did not feel it appropriate to post on the yellow board (previously Peanut 34) since I am the proud momma of a 15-month-old angel and I am looking to add to my nest. I go in tomorrow for FET consultation. I am scared and nervous. As you ladies helped my through my DE cycle, I have once again turned to you. Am I crazy to get back in this rodeo? Is it selfish to want another child after begging for just one. I watch him grow each day and I don't want him to be an only child. My stats: 3 IVF's, PG during IVF #2 MC at 9 weeks, DE cycle BFP DS. We have 3 frozen blasts.

I know nothing about FET. My only experience is a girlfriend who tried one in December with day 3 embies from 2006. She went through 6 embies in 1 day, transferred 2 with a chemical PG. Her experience scares the kibbles out of me seeing that she had 8 embies to start with and I only have 3 blasts.

Anyone else have to make this choice? How did it go? Words of advice, encouragement, or wisdom?
Last edited by TwiceACharm on May 23rd, 2012, 2:51 am, edited 1 time in total.
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Joined: September 26th, 2008, 9:06 pm

May 23rd, 2012, 2:42 pm #2

A LOT of us have been in your position and felt the desire for another child.

(My much longed-for 2nd child is due in December.)
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Joined: May 10th, 2011, 11:57 pm

May 23rd, 2012, 5:49 pm #3

Hello Ladies,

I did not feel it appropriate to post on the yellow board (previously Peanut 34) since I am the proud momma of a 15-month-old angel and I am looking to add to my nest. I go in tomorrow for FET consultation. I am scared and nervous. As you ladies helped my through my DE cycle, I have once again turned to you. Am I crazy to get back in this rodeo? Is it selfish to want another child after begging for just one. I watch him grow each day and I don't want him to be an only child. My stats: 3 IVF's, PG during IVF #2 MC at 9 weeks, DE cycle BFP DS. We have 3 frozen blasts.

I know nothing about FET. My only experience is a girlfriend who tried one in December with day 3 embies from 2006. She went through 6 embies in 1 day, transferred 2 with a chemical PG. Her experience scares the kibbles out of me seeing that she had 8 embies to start with and I only have 3 blasts.

Anyone else have to make this choice? How did it go? Words of advice, encouragement, or wisdom?
I have no advice to offer, as we just have our nearly 6-month-old and have not decided whether to try for another, but I can imagine the jitters you are feeling. Please don't think you're "selfish": fertile people don't second-guess themselves in this way, do they? You have as much right as anyone else to try for another child, and I wish you all the best. Please keep us posted.

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