I am the mother of 3 de children, two different donors. This can work. My oldest was success on our first try. We only got 3 fertilized, two survived til transfer. We had a singleton. Three years later we tried again with the same donor. We did one fresh and two frozen transfers, all bfn. Then we chose a new donor. She became very ill and everything stopped. We then started over, but finally found a new donor. We had our twins last year. This process allowed us to be parents and me to experience pregnancy twice. I hardly visit this board anymore, but just wanted to give some encouragement. I know I have the children I was meant to have. And yes people tell me they look nothing like me to which I just say, I know, they look like their dad. We are telling our children and I've started that process. It does make me sad a bit that I will never see a genetic child of mine and I can't trace the histories of my kids. But I can't imagine my life without my kids. I really feel that my infertility was a blessing because without it, these wonderful, beautiful, smart, strong little people wouldn't exist.
Good luck to all of you.
Thanks for taking time from all your responsibilities to say that. I needed to hear it. Had a very tough weekend coming to grips with my reality here.
All the best to you.