Recognizing Needs

Subconscious use cue extinguishment
come clean
Joined: 19 Dec 2008, 00:04

11 Jan 2007, 13:18 #61

i love this site with its endless posibilities for growth and recognition through posts. what a great Image moment i just had reading this post put into words something that i've kind of felt but not been able to really grasp.


and what a wonderful way to celebrate clean living...to look at it as a re-exploration of the VARIETY and POSSIBILITIES in meeting our needs. how boring, and unfulfilling it was to have a one common answer. i think of myself as dynamic, so why ever settle again for one catch all solution that doesn't actually solve anything.
the other day i sat and had a bowl of oatmeal before work. while driving to work i realized i felt awake, alert, and fed.


so simple.


so different than how i tried to manage mornings while on nicotine. i'd have a terrible time getting out of bed, rush to get ready, 'treat myself' to 5 minutes of a cigarette before getting in my car, and then down coffee at work until i felt awake.


i myself am enjoying the re-sensitizing to the endless options to meeting my needs.


Image alex



(i haven't seen hardly anyone use that stick figure, ha ha ha)

(33 days of rediscovering ways to meet my needs, 426 opportunities to choose a path other than nicotine, $110 to spend on finding those new paths)
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musician smokefree
Joined: 19 Dec 2008, 01:32

11 Jan 2007, 13:30 #62

This is an excellant post. I have read it several times but never replyed. I can remain silent no longer. Very helpful, thank you !!!!!

Dale
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sue468
Joined: 19 Dec 2008, 00:02

11 Jan 2007, 18:19 #63

When I first read this I had been having lots of cravings. I went and got a big glass of water and came back to reread it and some of the replies. I was actually really thirsty!

This article is really helpful.

Sue

I have been quit for 2 Weeks, 1 Day, 5 hours, 19 minutes and 28 seconds (15 days). I have saved $76.10 by not smoking 304 cigarettes. I have saved 1 Day, 1 hour and 20 minutes of my life. My Quit Date: 12/27/2006 12:00 AM
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Sasha1310
Joined: 07 Jan 2009, 19:37

20 Sep 2007, 20:35 #64

Image I'm glad I found this information. After 20 days, I have this wanting 'something' feeling quite a lot. I now know to explore what my body is trying to tell me and not just think that it is a craving that won't go away!
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vegadog2
Joined: 23 Sep 2009, 22:43

27 Sep 2009, 23:05 #65

Thanks for the post really brings thing into perspective
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donedippin
Joined: 20 Jan 2010, 01:49

18 Feb 2010, 02:08 #66

Woke this morning to intense "craves" after working a long stretch of night shift. I used to smoke my way through the tired, not well exercised feeling.  Not today.  I saw this post this am and have been meeting each one of my needs.  This is the first time in 34 days I have taken inventory and corrected what needed to be corrected.  It has helped tremendously!  I am looking forward to tomorrow so that I can practice this new game of discovery and correction.  
Thanks posters!
Tim
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Johnnie
Joined: 17 Aug 2010, 16:35

18 Nov 2010, 13:46 #67

Absolutely wonderful!
Gratefully Gold

I escaped from the prison of smoking on August 14, 2010.  
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JimH
Joined: 09 Sep 2010, 13:05

18 Nov 2010, 16:09 #68

Wow!  What a great insight to share. Thanks for the original post and thanks for putting it up prominently so I saw it today.

I intend to heed this advice and learn to identify what I am craving.


Jim - Free and Healing for Two Months, Twenty Four Days, 21 Hours and 37 Minutes, while extending my life expectancy 20 Days and 21 Hours, by avoiding the use of 6013 nicotine delivery devices that would have cost me $1,357.73.


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Carina
Joined: 28 Jan 2011, 19:27

15 Feb 2011, 20:21 #69

I honestly thought the first cig of the day with my cup of coffee would be the hardest one to give up, the one I'd miss the most...Now, I report back-that morning cig is the one i'm the most grateful to not have. It's wonderful to start my day breathing clean air and without engaging the ceaseless cycle of nicotine replenishment and depletion.
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Mandevilla
Joined: 05 Jan 2011, 00:09

18 Feb 2011, 00:50 #70

I have been compelled also to say - this is an excellent post.  It means so much to have someone say what you feel - and in a way that gives you confidence.
Thank you OBob - I wish you were still on these boards...but that's ok - we're still lovin' you anyway - wherever you are Image

Lisa
Quit 1-1-11 smiling and smiling Image
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