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March 3rd, 2018, 5:54 am #21

To the members of the USDBF paddling community,
Over the past few years our organization has experienced turmoil arising out of
concerns expressed by many dragon boat participants regarding inappropriate and
offensive behavior, and regarding the appropriate procedures for addressing such
behavior and preventing its recurrence. These concerns crystallized due to a series of
unfortunate incidents that occurred at the 2015 IDBF World Championships held in
Welland, Canada. The manner in which these incidents were addressed over the
subsequent months led to many negative repercussions for those who first brought these
concerns to our attention. For that we are truly sorry.
We also recognize that up until now, we -- the Board and officers of the USBDF --
did not have a clearly stated code of ethics or a well-established and easily understood
procedure in place to address complaints of inappropriate and offensive behavior or other
misconduct that should not be tolerated within the dragon boat community. Because of
that, there were times when we took actions, modified, or reversed actions or otherwise
may have acted (or refrained from acting) in ways that left many in our community
confused, angered and, in some instances, feeling that inappropriate or offensive behavior
was not being properly and timely addressed.
To remedy these situations and to endeavor to prevent their recurrence, we have
now adopted the attached Code of Ethics, which not only outlines what the USDBF
deems to be inappropriate and offensive behavior but also outlines the means by which
any instance of such behavior will be reported to and addressed by the Officers and Board
of Directors of the USDBF. In so doing, we are specifically addressing what many have
deemed, with reason, to be a prior lack of a clear code of conduct for our participants and
a lack of thorough and accessible means by which to address and remedy any violation of
that code. In so doing we are acting to remedy any prior inadequacy in addressing the
events that have caused so much turmoil in our community. We recognize that we need
to do more -- and are doing so now.
We would be remiss in not acknowledging that these needed changes are due in
large measure to the concerns raised by Dr. Hype Mattingly and her co-complainants who
raised the issue nearly two years ago. We owe them an apology for not having handled
these matters as well or swiftly as we would have liked and we acknowledge the often
painful repercussions they have experienced in the intervening period. Because we value
all those who have committed so much time and energy to our community, we are taking
this forward looking approach. We do so in the hope and expectation that all of us
recognize that the best thing for the dragon boat community in the United States is to
treat each other with respect, to channel our competitive spirit into the physical challenge
of the sport itself as opposed to interpersonal conflicts. And finally, to encourage –
indeed, insist upon -- proper behavior going forward, whether on or off the water. We
hope you will all join us in this effort.
Respectfully submitted, The USDBF Board of Directors
"Except that there was no issue".

so you leave it to Barb who has been emotionally abused by Bob for years to make a decision on his behavior.

what in the actual hell.

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March 3rd, 2018, 3:58 pm #22

To the members of the USDBF paddling community,
Over the past few years our organization has experienced turmoil arising out of
concerns expressed by many dragon boat participants regarding inappropriate and
offensive behavior, and regarding the appropriate procedures for addressing such
behavior and preventing its recurrence. These concerns crystallized due to a series of
unfortunate incidents that occurred at the 2015 IDBF World Championships held in
Welland, Canada. The manner in which these incidents were addressed over the
subsequent months led to many negative repercussions for those who first brought these
concerns to our attention. For that we are truly sorry.
We also recognize that up until now, we -- the Board and officers of the USBDF --
did not have a clearly stated code of ethics or a well-established and easily understood
procedure in place to address complaints of inappropriate and offensive behavior or other
misconduct that should not be tolerated within the dragon boat community. Because of
that, there were times when we took actions, modified, or reversed actions or otherwise
may have acted (or refrained from acting) in ways that left many in our community
confused, angered and, in some instances, feeling that inappropriate or offensive behavior
was not being properly and timely addressed.
To remedy these situations and to endeavor to prevent their recurrence, we have
now adopted the attached Code of Ethics, which not only outlines what the USDBF
deems to be inappropriate and offensive behavior but also outlines the means by which
any instance of such behavior will be reported to and addressed by the Officers and Board
of Directors of the USDBF. In so doing, we are specifically addressing what many have
deemed, with reason, to be a prior lack of a clear code of conduct for our participants and
a lack of thorough and accessible means by which to address and remedy any violation of
that code. In so doing we are acting to remedy any prior inadequacy in addressing the
events that have caused so much turmoil in our community. We recognize that we need
to do more -- and are doing so now.
We would be remiss in not acknowledging that these needed changes are due in
large measure to the concerns raised by Dr. Hype Mattingly and her co-complainants who
raised the issue nearly two years ago. We owe them an apology for not having handled
these matters as well or swiftly as we would have liked and we acknowledge the often
painful repercussions they have experienced in the intervening period. Because we value
all those who have committed so much time and energy to our community, we are taking
this forward looking approach. We do so in the hope and expectation that all of us
recognize that the best thing for the dragon boat community in the United States is to
treat each other with respect, to channel our competitive spirit into the physical challenge
of the sport itself as opposed to interpersonal conflicts. And finally, to encourage –
indeed, insist upon -- proper behavior going forward, whether on or off the water. We
hope you will all join us in this effort.
Respectfully submitted, The USDBF Board of Directors
Hype, time is up for you. You are no longer relevant. Go frame your apology letter and be gone
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March 4th, 2018, 4:15 am #23

To the members of the USDBF paddling community,
Over the past few years our organization has experienced turmoil arising out of
concerns expressed by many dragon boat participants regarding inappropriate and
offensive behavior, and regarding the appropriate procedures for addressing such
behavior and preventing its recurrence. These concerns crystallized due to a series of
unfortunate incidents that occurred at the 2015 IDBF World Championships held in
Welland, Canada. The manner in which these incidents were addressed over the
subsequent months led to many negative repercussions for those who first brought these
concerns to our attention. For that we are truly sorry.
We also recognize that up until now, we -- the Board and officers of the USBDF --
did not have a clearly stated code of ethics or a well-established and easily understood
procedure in place to address complaints of inappropriate and offensive behavior or other
misconduct that should not be tolerated within the dragon boat community. Because of
that, there were times when we took actions, modified, or reversed actions or otherwise
may have acted (or refrained from acting) in ways that left many in our community
confused, angered and, in some instances, feeling that inappropriate or offensive behavior
was not being properly and timely addressed.
To remedy these situations and to endeavor to prevent their recurrence, we have
now adopted the attached Code of Ethics, which not only outlines what the USDBF
deems to be inappropriate and offensive behavior but also outlines the means by which
any instance of such behavior will be reported to and addressed by the Officers and Board
of Directors of the USDBF. In so doing, we are specifically addressing what many have
deemed, with reason, to be a prior lack of a clear code of conduct for our participants and
a lack of thorough and accessible means by which to address and remedy any violation of
that code. In so doing we are acting to remedy any prior inadequacy in addressing the
events that have caused so much turmoil in our community. We recognize that we need
to do more -- and are doing so now.
We would be remiss in not acknowledging that these needed changes are due in
large measure to the concerns raised by Dr. Hype Mattingly and her co-complainants who
raised the issue nearly two years ago. We owe them an apology for not having handled
these matters as well or swiftly as we would have liked and we acknowledge the often
painful repercussions they have experienced in the intervening period. Because we value
all those who have committed so much time and energy to our community, we are taking
this forward looking approach. We do so in the hope and expectation that all of us
recognize that the best thing for the dragon boat community in the United States is to
treat each other with respect, to channel our competitive spirit into the physical challenge
of the sport itself as opposed to interpersonal conflicts. And finally, to encourage –
indeed, insist upon -- proper behavior going forward, whether on or off the water. We
hope you will all join us in this effort.
Respectfully submitted, The USDBF Board of Directors
“so you leave it to Barb who has been emotionally abused by Bob for years to make a decision on his behavior.
what in the actual hell. “

Maybe you are wrong, maybe Barb didn’t see one angry outburst about a bogus race ruling as the problem you do? Maybe she put that one event aside because of kindness shown to her friends and family that you have no clue about because it was only known to a few?
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March 5th, 2018, 2:27 am #24

To the members of the USDBF paddling community,
Over the past few years our organization has experienced turmoil arising out of
concerns expressed by many dragon boat participants regarding inappropriate and
offensive behavior, and regarding the appropriate procedures for addressing such
behavior and preventing its recurrence. These concerns crystallized due to a series of
unfortunate incidents that occurred at the 2015 IDBF World Championships held in
Welland, Canada. The manner in which these incidents were addressed over the
subsequent months led to many negative repercussions for those who first brought these
concerns to our attention. For that we are truly sorry.
We also recognize that up until now, we -- the Board and officers of the USBDF --
did not have a clearly stated code of ethics or a well-established and easily understood
procedure in place to address complaints of inappropriate and offensive behavior or other
misconduct that should not be tolerated within the dragon boat community. Because of
that, there were times when we took actions, modified, or reversed actions or otherwise
may have acted (or refrained from acting) in ways that left many in our community
confused, angered and, in some instances, feeling that inappropriate or offensive behavior
was not being properly and timely addressed.
To remedy these situations and to endeavor to prevent their recurrence, we have
now adopted the attached Code of Ethics, which not only outlines what the USDBF
deems to be inappropriate and offensive behavior but also outlines the means by which
any instance of such behavior will be reported to and addressed by the Officers and Board
of Directors of the USDBF. In so doing, we are specifically addressing what many have
deemed, with reason, to be a prior lack of a clear code of conduct for our participants and
a lack of thorough and accessible means by which to address and remedy any violation of
that code. In so doing we are acting to remedy any prior inadequacy in addressing the
events that have caused so much turmoil in our community. We recognize that we need
to do more -- and are doing so now.
We would be remiss in not acknowledging that these needed changes are due in
large measure to the concerns raised by Dr. Hype Mattingly and her co-complainants who
raised the issue nearly two years ago. We owe them an apology for not having handled
these matters as well or swiftly as we would have liked and we acknowledge the often
painful repercussions they have experienced in the intervening period. Because we value
all those who have committed so much time and energy to our community, we are taking
this forward looking approach. We do so in the hope and expectation that all of us
recognize that the best thing for the dragon boat community in the United States is to
treat each other with respect, to channel our competitive spirit into the physical challenge
of the sport itself as opposed to interpersonal conflicts. And finally, to encourage –
indeed, insist upon -- proper behavior going forward, whether on or off the water. We
hope you will all join us in this effort.
Respectfully submitted, The USDBF Board of Directors
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March 5th, 2018, 3:40 am #25

To the members of the USDBF paddling community,
Over the past few years our organization has experienced turmoil arising out of
concerns expressed by many dragon boat participants regarding inappropriate and
offensive behavior, and regarding the appropriate procedures for addressing such
behavior and preventing its recurrence. These concerns crystallized due to a series of
unfortunate incidents that occurred at the 2015 IDBF World Championships held in
Welland, Canada. The manner in which these incidents were addressed over the
subsequent months led to many negative repercussions for those who first brought these
concerns to our attention. For that we are truly sorry.
We also recognize that up until now, we -- the Board and officers of the USBDF --
did not have a clearly stated code of ethics or a well-established and easily understood
procedure in place to address complaints of inappropriate and offensive behavior or other
misconduct that should not be tolerated within the dragon boat community. Because of
that, there were times when we took actions, modified, or reversed actions or otherwise
may have acted (or refrained from acting) in ways that left many in our community
confused, angered and, in some instances, feeling that inappropriate or offensive behavior
was not being properly and timely addressed.
To remedy these situations and to endeavor to prevent their recurrence, we have
now adopted the attached Code of Ethics, which not only outlines what the USDBF
deems to be inappropriate and offensive behavior but also outlines the means by which
any instance of such behavior will be reported to and addressed by the Officers and Board
of Directors of the USDBF. In so doing, we are specifically addressing what many have
deemed, with reason, to be a prior lack of a clear code of conduct for our participants and
a lack of thorough and accessible means by which to address and remedy any violation of
that code. In so doing we are acting to remedy any prior inadequacy in addressing the
events that have caused so much turmoil in our community. We recognize that we need
to do more -- and are doing so now.
We would be remiss in not acknowledging that these needed changes are due in
large measure to the concerns raised by Dr. Hype Mattingly and her co-complainants who
raised the issue nearly two years ago. We owe them an apology for not having handled
these matters as well or swiftly as we would have liked and we acknowledge the often
painful repercussions they have experienced in the intervening period. Because we value
all those who have committed so much time and energy to our community, we are taking
this forward looking approach. We do so in the hope and expectation that all of us
recognize that the best thing for the dragon boat community in the United States is to
treat each other with respect, to channel our competitive spirit into the physical challenge
of the sport itself as opposed to interpersonal conflicts. And finally, to encourage –
indeed, insist upon -- proper behavior going forward, whether on or off the water. We
hope you will all join us in this effort.
Respectfully submitted, The USDBF Board of Directors
"so you leave it to Barb who has been emotionally abused by Bob for years to make a decision on his behavior."

Libel. And we have your IP address.
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March 8th, 2018, 7:22 pm #26

To the members of the USDBF paddling community,
Over the past few years our organization has experienced turmoil arising out of
concerns expressed by many dragon boat participants regarding inappropriate and
offensive behavior, and regarding the appropriate procedures for addressing such
behavior and preventing its recurrence. These concerns crystallized due to a series of
unfortunate incidents that occurred at the 2015 IDBF World Championships held in
Welland, Canada. The manner in which these incidents were addressed over the
subsequent months led to many negative repercussions for those who first brought these
concerns to our attention. For that we are truly sorry.
We also recognize that up until now, we -- the Board and officers of the USBDF --
did not have a clearly stated code of ethics or a well-established and easily understood
procedure in place to address complaints of inappropriate and offensive behavior or other
misconduct that should not be tolerated within the dragon boat community. Because of
that, there were times when we took actions, modified, or reversed actions or otherwise
may have acted (or refrained from acting) in ways that left many in our community
confused, angered and, in some instances, feeling that inappropriate or offensive behavior
was not being properly and timely addressed.
To remedy these situations and to endeavor to prevent their recurrence, we have
now adopted the attached Code of Ethics, which not only outlines what the USDBF
deems to be inappropriate and offensive behavior but also outlines the means by which
any instance of such behavior will be reported to and addressed by the Officers and Board
of Directors of the USDBF. In so doing, we are specifically addressing what many have
deemed, with reason, to be a prior lack of a clear code of conduct for our participants and
a lack of thorough and accessible means by which to address and remedy any violation of
that code. In so doing we are acting to remedy any prior inadequacy in addressing the
events that have caused so much turmoil in our community. We recognize that we need
to do more -- and are doing so now.
We would be remiss in not acknowledging that these needed changes are due in
large measure to the concerns raised by Dr. Hype Mattingly and her co-complainants who
raised the issue nearly two years ago. We owe them an apology for not having handled
these matters as well or swiftly as we would have liked and we acknowledge the often
painful repercussions they have experienced in the intervening period. Because we value
all those who have committed so much time and energy to our community, we are taking
this forward looking approach. We do so in the hope and expectation that all of us
recognize that the best thing for the dragon boat community in the United States is to
treat each other with respect, to channel our competitive spirit into the physical challenge
of the sport itself as opposed to interpersonal conflicts. And finally, to encourage –
indeed, insist upon -- proper behavior going forward, whether on or off the water. We
hope you will all join us in this effort.
Respectfully submitted, The USDBF Board of Directors
Canada has wasted triple that on Chloe's salary. She does nothing and when she does, 80% of the time it is late or completely wrong.

So $100k is cheap.
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