Whaaat? First, I am sorry but this is a casualty of my profession - you are seriously abusing the semicolon. That is NOT proper usage.You're pretty good at that. Judging others; that is to say.
I see that it makes you feel very good about yourself.
I'm not sure whether to laugh at you or feel pity. You've wholeheartedly embraced the ethos of this place; when someone you don't know comes here you attack them in entirely unoriginal ways to build up your weak, sad little bruised ego. In other quarters it is called cyber-bullying. Here you reason through it with some sort of shallow, weak rationale and half-baked pseudo-psychological b.s. characterization of Anon.
(You expected that from me? Right?)
Next... I really don't see how anyone was abusive. Your thread got massive comments and people were interested and relaying their life experiences and personal opinions on your situation. I think it came out pretty much that 50-50 people thought kids should be invited to a wedding but 0-100 that you should hold a grudge against the bride and groom for asking for kid free.
But your feelings about it aren't negated by a message bored!
Why so angry?