by April
Yesterday, 21:52
Forum: Crossdreaming in Your Life
Topic: fave dresses
Replies: 29
Views: 1.1K

Re: fave dresses

My latest acquisition:

by April
Yesterday, 21:19
Forum: Crossdreaming in Your Life
Topic: April's Journal
Replies: 79
Views: 4.2K

Re: April's Journal

by April
13 Dec 2017, 19:45
Forum: Crossdreaming in Your Life
Topic: "Do you dance like a girl?"
Replies: 47
Views: 1.4K

Re:

My entire transition in 3 dance videos:

2 years ago this week



1 year ago this week



And this week:
by April
13 Dec 2017, 16:17
Forum: What is Crossdreaming?
Topic: The future of the term 'crossdreaming' and our community
Replies: 22
Views: 788

Re: The future of the term 'crossdreaming' and our community

"Note than many cis women score high on those tests as well, I have had several partners who would score maximum points on the IF test. Therefore if it measures anything at all (doubtful) it is just an aspect of normal cis female sexuality." - Lisa I believe this is an universal aspect of human sexu...
by April
08 Dec 2017, 21:36
Forum: What is Crossdreaming?
Topic: I am an autogynephile. What does my identity imply for transactivism?
Replies: 20
Views: 747

Re: I am an autogynephile. What does my identity imply for transactivism?

"Didn't you enjoy your job at all, April? Wasn't there any beauty in it? Didn't you ever find out something and just wanted to share it with somebody else for the sheer pleasure of it? Didn't being useful to somebody else ever give you a feeling of satisfaction?" Um yes, of course. There actually ha...
by April
07 Dec 2017, 21:26
Forum: Anything else
Topic: Michelle Wolf -- "Nice Lady"
Replies: 4
Views: 146

Re: Michelle Wolf -- "Nice Lady"

Allison, I actually find Michelle rather pretty. Jeans and tank top or T-shirt are not uncommon style choices for me during my day to day routine But I tend to do some jazzing up with the accessorizing, and not all of that would be called conventionally feminine. I like wearing some heavy goth looki...
by April
07 Dec 2017, 18:44
Forum: Crossdreaming in Your Life
Topic: Songs that make you crossdream
Replies: 201
Views: 8.1K

Re: Songs that make you crossdream

Monique, A very cute song. I totally get how it facilitates your vision of your perfect life. Our fantasies in this forum are all very different, so naturally our triggers are different as well. My fantasy has aged with me over the years. I have always been a rather strong female in my fantasies, an...
by April
07 Dec 2017, 15:01
Forum: Anything else
Topic: non-trans subject matter here
Replies: 17
Views: 479

Re: non-trans subject matter here

Dawn, Thanks for returning this thread to Deb's original intent. I have been on the web for more than 20 years, and have had been a member of a number of forums during that time. People tend to gravitate towards controversy, and that tends to crowd out the kind social exchanges that Deb would like t...
by April
07 Dec 2017, 14:38
Forum: What is Crossdreaming?
Topic: I am an autogynephile. What does my identity imply for transactivism?
Replies: 20
Views: 747

Re: I am an autogynephile. What does my identity imply for transactivism?

Oreb, I hear you. Like yourself, I had some ambition when I was young. I essentially remade myself in every way to be the sort of man who accomplished things. I had some success, and my resume of accomplishments is pretty extensive and impressive. But I never had long term sustainable success. Just ...
by April
06 Dec 2017, 22:45
Forum: What is Crossdreaming?
Topic: I am an autogynephile. What does my identity imply for transactivism?
Replies: 20
Views: 747

Re: I am an autogynephile. What does my identity imply for transactivism?

Monique, Interesting point, but I see something in it you may, or may not, have intended. Why do we worry about other people's expectations at all? My belief is that being trans involves following your own inner voice, and when you listen to anybody else's voice, it just gets in the way. Some people...