If I am semi-out...

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If I am semi-out...

Joined: December 29th, 2017, 4:13 pm

January 12th, 2018, 11:22 am #1

Is that still crossdreaming? Is it if I am married but a female but gay and she knows and I date men? Its very complicated for me. I don't want to pour my whole life out if its inappropriate here. 
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Joined: November 18th, 2015, 9:10 pm

January 12th, 2018, 4:03 pm #2

Crossdreaming is simply a positive or compelling experience in imaging yourself to be the other sex.  In most people there is arousal associated with this but lately we have seeing people report that arousal has little or nothing to do with it for them.   I suppose if you outright transition, then it might not be crossdreaming anymore but most of us in this space, that use the term, are not going to do that for one reason or another.

As far as pouring your life out, nothing is too far or too much as long as it fits your comfort level.  Many have, including myself, have fully exposes our actions and thoughts here in way we never could in person.  Their is very little judgement here.
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Joined: January 1st, 2018, 11:21 pm

January 12th, 2018, 9:40 pm #3

@Koloa nails it. I am a Crossdreamer because I'm in a healthy, happy marriage of 30+ years, and I am exploring the female self that I have not acknowledged all my life. My wife and I are processing what this mean. This community helps me understand others' situations similar to and different from mine, and thereby put into perspective my own journey. Feel free to share! <3 
—Bethany

the three most important strategies are...
1. Reinvent what 'being a man' means to you - .
2. Reinvent what 'being a woman' means to you - .
3. Mash together 1 and 2... and create the new you.
—Felix Conrad
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