Dreaming en femme

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Dreaming en femme

Tami
Joined: 19 May 2017, 00:28

01 Aug 2017, 22:41 #1

In her introduction, Bethany said, "I would love to have dreams about being feminine but this has never happened." I have had the opposite experience, I frequently dream that I am a woman or I am cross dressing.  At times when it has not been at the forefront of my mind it has popped up in my dreams.  It is usually quite arousing, sometimes it is anxiety laden.  It generally leaves me with a good feeling and wanting more. It's intersting that I am usually with men in my dreams, but occassionally I'll be with a women and that will be quite nice. I think my subconciouss knows this is where I want to go.  I take these dreams as a confirmation that my feminine desires are real and not totally under my control.  I am living a supressed life so I suppose dreams are a natural consequence.  

Does anybody else have similiar experience?
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stefwah
Joined: 03 Jun 2017, 11:28

02 Aug 2017, 12:05 #2

occasionally. not enough. as a women or crossdressed around people I know. usually highly highly tumultuous. I feel so agitated in these dreams I usually wake up. why can't I just relax and enjoy it!
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Marney
Joined: 08 May 2017, 11:09

08 Aug 2017, 06:27 #3

Before I came out and accepted myself my dreams would be of me trying to dress as a woman but being stopped by interruptions and other people, but now in my dreams I get to fully change to a woman.
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Monique
Joined: 25 Mar 2016, 09:30

08 Aug 2017, 09:20 #4

Marney wrote: Before I came out and accepted myself my dreams would be of me trying to dress as a woman but being stopped by interruptions and other people, but now in my dreams I get to fully change to a woman.
That's interesting, Marney. I also like your avatar. I LOVE Dita von Teese! 😍

For some reason, I never seem to dream I'm a woman, unfortunately, and yes, sometimes I get a little worried by this. Like my conscious self is just deluding herself while my unconscious self knows better and is almost taunting me. Embarrasing crossdressing dreams do happen though, but rarely.

Nevertheless, going through my dream journal I stumble on this entry from July 1st, 2017: "Actually dreamt about myself as a woman and that I dearly wanted to have men visiting. Was wearing a black maid's dress and donned a bob hairstyle", which is surprising since bobs aren't my absolute favourite, but it kind of fits the scenario apparently. 🙂

Most of our dreams we don't remember. I wonder what happens during those.


Love,
Monique
"We live only to discover beauty. All else is a form of waiting."

- Khalil Gibran


If I cannot be a feminine traditional woman, what's the point of being a woman?

- Me
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Marney
Joined: 08 May 2017, 11:09

08 Aug 2017, 09:24 #5

Me too, I'm always curious about the ones I don't remember. 💃🏼😊

I love my pale skin, even if everyone laughs at me for. It just makes me a little bit like Dita 😍
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Monique
Joined: 25 Mar 2016, 09:30

08 Aug 2017, 20:28 #6

We femmes love our soft pale skin because it's feminine.

It's not like I refuse going to the beach though. I just make damn sure to bring a parasol. 😉
"We live only to discover beauty. All else is a form of waiting."

- Khalil Gibran


If I cannot be a feminine traditional woman, what's the point of being a woman?

- Me
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Karen
Joined: 19 Nov 2015, 13:43

09 Aug 2017, 01:42 #7

I've only had a few trans dreams, for instance:

-I dreamed I woke up in a woman's body, surrounded by several men who explained it was like a medical experiment, and that I was pregnant, I just asked how far and they said it was like I'd just gotten pregnant. A man (light-skinned, muscular, clean-shaven) was assigned to act like my husband for my new identity, it had to be kept secret that I wasn't a woman before. We moved to another city and he went out to work while I stayed as a housewife and cooked for him and so forth, I learned about makeup and dressing like a woman (I apparently always chose to wear dresses). One day, when the pregnancy was starting to show, he casually mentioned that sex was part of our roles, I was nervous but I agreed, I sat on the bed, I was wearing a yellow summer dress, I took off my shoes (sort of black Mary Janes) and looked at my legs, I told myself I had nice legs, and smiled at the irony that even though I was pregnant I was really a virgin as a woman, and was about to start undressing (my plan being to strip, lay on my back and spread my legs for my husband) when I woke up.

-I was in some sort of maze with mirrors on the walls, I face one of them at some point, I'm younger, wearing a kind of white blouse, I seem to be flat-chested, I'm wearing a white skirt and am barefoot, my legs are smooth and feminine, and I'm wearing pink nail varnish on my toenails.
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Tami
Joined: 19 May 2017, 00:28

04 Oct 2017, 23:27 #8

The other night I had very vivid dream that I had a vag/clitoris and was masturbating.  As good as any stimulation I have ever had with my male part.  It seemed to go on for a long time.  It certainly left me wanting...
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Sofie
Joined: 26 Nov 2015, 16:48

07 Oct 2017, 04:38 #9

When I am feeling dysphoria, I often dream myself as a girl. It is very relieving until I wake up. But it feels amazing as long as I am dreaming. Probably about half the time, I am just a girl in my dreams, not in any sexual way. When it comes to sex, it is almost always with another girl -- I am mostly a lesbian at heart.
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