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Joined: November 27th, 2009, 3:51 am

October 20th, 2010, 4:00 pm #1

First off let me say that this is by no means a "good bye cruel forum" post. It is however going to be my last day on these N54 boards. My time and energies are better served on things in my "real" life. I'm going to go back to school soon and I don't need the extra distraction of N54 taking away from my studies. I've also pared down Facebook which is another distraction I don't have time for. I can't get rid of it or I'd never know what my family was up to so to those of you I took off my friend list, it was nothing personal, just a way for me to try and self-police my time on the net.

Although I don't post much anymore on N54 I do still read on occasion and what I've read this morning around the boards sickens me. I do not understand how my marriage to Mondo is still a topic of conversation with Nucc. I also do not understand how one person can have such animosity towards someone he's never met in person and knows nothing of in real life. To read posts calling my husband an antagonistic, jew-hating anti-christ is a little unsettling to say the least. Those are very strong words and carry a lot of meaning behind them. It amazes me how carelessly they get tossed around these parts.

Some of you can put whatever pretty little spin on Nucc's comments that you wish but I'll call it what it is....bullshit. He is out to hurt Mondo and it's pretty evident that he in no way wants to have an actual discussion about anything. He would rather make comments on us and our marriage in an attempt to bait. He's done this for the past few years and I'm tired of it. I think its better if I just get off the forums all together and then hopefully it will take away a bit of the fuel for the fire. I made the mistake of sharing my experiences with going to church and looking for God when I started on these boards and now it gets used against me time and time again.

I don't have a thick skin and his words wound me deeply. My marriage is sacred to me and to have him make those kinds of comments on it and about my husband is such a personal violation to me. I will not be drawn into a conversation where I am made to feel I have to defend why my husband is a great husband and why Nucc is wrong. He is and that's there is to that. I love how he calls me stupid, naive, gullible, moronic etc. all in the name of "love". If that's love, he can keep it. I'll stick with the kind of love I've been blessed enough to be given in this life.

I have been entertained today by certain posts regarding tundra thumping, mu-heads and beeyotches and disappointed by some posts where I felt an unfair standard was being set. However, I guess that is what happens in real life too, not just the "net world".

I wish you all the best in your real lives because our real lives are the ones that matter the most, not the net persona's we create for ourselves. I probably should have left this all alone but I guess I too have a breaking point.





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October 20th, 2010, 8:22 pm #2


Sad be I, understand does I.

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October 20th, 2010, 8:29 pm #3

First off let me say that this is by no means a "good bye cruel forum" post. It is however going to be my last day on these N54 boards. My time and energies are better served on things in my "real" life. I'm going to go back to school soon and I don't need the extra distraction of N54 taking away from my studies. I've also pared down Facebook which is another distraction I don't have time for. I can't get rid of it or I'd never know what my family was up to so to those of you I took off my friend list, it was nothing personal, just a way for me to try and self-police my time on the net.

Although I don't post much anymore on N54 I do still read on occasion and what I've read this morning around the boards sickens me. I do not understand how my marriage to Mondo is still a topic of conversation with Nucc. I also do not understand how one person can have such animosity towards someone he's never met in person and knows nothing of in real life. To read posts calling my husband an antagonistic, jew-hating anti-christ is a little unsettling to say the least. Those are very strong words and carry a lot of meaning behind them. It amazes me how carelessly they get tossed around these parts.

Some of you can put whatever pretty little spin on Nucc's comments that you wish but I'll call it what it is....bullshit. He is out to hurt Mondo and it's pretty evident that he in no way wants to have an actual discussion about anything. He would rather make comments on us and our marriage in an attempt to bait. He's done this for the past few years and I'm tired of it. I think its better if I just get off the forums all together and then hopefully it will take away a bit of the fuel for the fire. I made the mistake of sharing my experiences with going to church and looking for God when I started on these boards and now it gets used against me time and time again.

I don't have a thick skin and his words wound me deeply. My marriage is sacred to me and to have him make those kinds of comments on it and about my husband is such a personal violation to me. I will not be drawn into a conversation where I am made to feel I have to defend why my husband is a great husband and why Nucc is wrong. He is and that's there is to that. I love how he calls me stupid, naive, gullible, moronic etc. all in the name of "love". If that's love, he can keep it. I'll stick with the kind of love I've been blessed enough to be given in this life.

I have been entertained today by certain posts regarding tundra thumping, mu-heads and beeyotches and disappointed by some posts where I felt an unfair standard was being set. However, I guess that is what happens in real life too, not just the "net world".

I wish you all the best in your real lives because our real lives are the ones that matter the most, not the net persona's we create for ourselves. I probably should have left this all alone but I guess I too have a breaking point.




You rock... And you are loved & respected... By your husband, and hopefully some other people that matter to you as well.

That's what matters. Peace & best of thoughts to you, always.
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October 20th, 2010, 11:27 pm #4

First off let me say that this is by no means a "good bye cruel forum" post. It is however going to be my last day on these N54 boards. My time and energies are better served on things in my "real" life. I'm going to go back to school soon and I don't need the extra distraction of N54 taking away from my studies. I've also pared down Facebook which is another distraction I don't have time for. I can't get rid of it or I'd never know what my family was up to so to those of you I took off my friend list, it was nothing personal, just a way for me to try and self-police my time on the net.

Although I don't post much anymore on N54 I do still read on occasion and what I've read this morning around the boards sickens me. I do not understand how my marriage to Mondo is still a topic of conversation with Nucc. I also do not understand how one person can have such animosity towards someone he's never met in person and knows nothing of in real life. To read posts calling my husband an antagonistic, jew-hating anti-christ is a little unsettling to say the least. Those are very strong words and carry a lot of meaning behind them. It amazes me how carelessly they get tossed around these parts.

Some of you can put whatever pretty little spin on Nucc's comments that you wish but I'll call it what it is....bullshit. He is out to hurt Mondo and it's pretty evident that he in no way wants to have an actual discussion about anything. He would rather make comments on us and our marriage in an attempt to bait. He's done this for the past few years and I'm tired of it. I think its better if I just get off the forums all together and then hopefully it will take away a bit of the fuel for the fire. I made the mistake of sharing my experiences with going to church and looking for God when I started on these boards and now it gets used against me time and time again.

I don't have a thick skin and his words wound me deeply. My marriage is sacred to me and to have him make those kinds of comments on it and about my husband is such a personal violation to me. I will not be drawn into a conversation where I am made to feel I have to defend why my husband is a great husband and why Nucc is wrong. He is and that's there is to that. I love how he calls me stupid, naive, gullible, moronic etc. all in the name of "love". If that's love, he can keep it. I'll stick with the kind of love I've been blessed enough to be given in this life.

I have been entertained today by certain posts regarding tundra thumping, mu-heads and beeyotches and disappointed by some posts where I felt an unfair standard was being set. However, I guess that is what happens in real life too, not just the "net world".

I wish you all the best in your real lives because our real lives are the ones that matter the most, not the net persona's we create for ourselves. I probably should have left this all alone but I guess I too have a breaking point.




Conciser the source Pam, Nucc shows no ability to reason or learn.
If Nucc as a child had been taught to slurp up his own vomit, he would do that the rest of his life. No reasoning no learning no imagination.

I was done arguing with Nucc about 2 years ago. He even created our own battle ground on the web where he could try and corner me in debate without anyone interfering. Oh God, I hope he doesn't try that with unlearned people or young people....
I don't know weather to feel sorry for Nucc or what. All I know is he is a rude, unreasonable waste of time. That's where he stands with me.

Good luck with your schooling Pam!
Don't forget to study the WORD of Life.

Take care sis.
Tim
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Joined: November 4th, 2006, 5:18 pm

October 21st, 2010, 1:43 am #5

First off let me say that this is by no means a "good bye cruel forum" post. It is however going to be my last day on these N54 boards. My time and energies are better served on things in my "real" life. I'm going to go back to school soon and I don't need the extra distraction of N54 taking away from my studies. I've also pared down Facebook which is another distraction I don't have time for. I can't get rid of it or I'd never know what my family was up to so to those of you I took off my friend list, it was nothing personal, just a way for me to try and self-police my time on the net.

Although I don't post much anymore on N54 I do still read on occasion and what I've read this morning around the boards sickens me. I do not understand how my marriage to Mondo is still a topic of conversation with Nucc. I also do not understand how one person can have such animosity towards someone he's never met in person and knows nothing of in real life. To read posts calling my husband an antagonistic, jew-hating anti-christ is a little unsettling to say the least. Those are very strong words and carry a lot of meaning behind them. It amazes me how carelessly they get tossed around these parts.

Some of you can put whatever pretty little spin on Nucc's comments that you wish but I'll call it what it is....bullshit. He is out to hurt Mondo and it's pretty evident that he in no way wants to have an actual discussion about anything. He would rather make comments on us and our marriage in an attempt to bait. He's done this for the past few years and I'm tired of it. I think its better if I just get off the forums all together and then hopefully it will take away a bit of the fuel for the fire. I made the mistake of sharing my experiences with going to church and looking for God when I started on these boards and now it gets used against me time and time again.

I don't have a thick skin and his words wound me deeply. My marriage is sacred to me and to have him make those kinds of comments on it and about my husband is such a personal violation to me. I will not be drawn into a conversation where I am made to feel I have to defend why my husband is a great husband and why Nucc is wrong. He is and that's there is to that. I love how he calls me stupid, naive, gullible, moronic etc. all in the name of "love". If that's love, he can keep it. I'll stick with the kind of love I've been blessed enough to be given in this life.

I have been entertained today by certain posts regarding tundra thumping, mu-heads and beeyotches and disappointed by some posts where I felt an unfair standard was being set. However, I guess that is what happens in real life too, not just the "net world".

I wish you all the best in your real lives because our real lives are the ones that matter the most, not the net persona's we create for ourselves. I probably should have left this all alone but I guess I too have a breaking point.




I hear you. I gave up on Jay's a few months ago and now am done with Beckett's forum and the hate-filled people who post there.

For awhile I imagined myself having fun playing games with them, but eventually I realized that this is not fun at all.

I wish you much success and happiness in your life.









"Error does not become Truth because it is widely accepted; Truth does not become error, even when it stands alone!"
(Thanks Kristy)
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October 21st, 2010, 2:06 am #6

This is an individual who is cruel and bitter. I don't know why but he is relentless and hates his Soul! His mind dominates his soul and so his soul is starving!

I have never seen a man who can quote much scripture betray his own testimony, if he has one like this person. Its painful to watch!

Im sorry how much pain he brings to people! God will repay him and this i know!

Pray for him no matter how difficult it might be for you!
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Joined: November 27th, 2009, 3:51 am

October 21st, 2010, 2:20 am #7

Sad be I, understand does I.

luv,
I always was sorry that I never go to know you better but you are always a delight to see around the board when you're posting. I hope you and Wifey are well. You keep up the important job of being Mondo and Noob's mentor

take good care of yourself.
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Joined: November 27th, 2009, 3:51 am

October 21st, 2010, 2:22 am #8

You rock... And you are loved & respected... By your husband, and hopefully some other people that matter to you as well.

That's what matters. Peace & best of thoughts to you, always.
I hope GPF comes on a Edmonton tour; for you and your band I'd even stay up late to come see you and trust me anyone who knows me well enough knows I don't make a promise of a late night often

I am glad I was able to get to know you better through the forums and appreciate that we get to share some real life things as well out there.

Take care of you and yours.
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Joined: November 27th, 2009, 3:51 am

October 21st, 2010, 2:23 am #9

Conciser the source Pam, Nucc shows no ability to reason or learn.
If Nucc as a child had been taught to slurp up his own vomit, he would do that the rest of his life. No reasoning no learning no imagination.

I was done arguing with Nucc about 2 years ago. He even created our own battle ground on the web where he could try and corner me in debate without anyone interfering. Oh God, I hope he doesn't try that with unlearned people or young people....
I don't know weather to feel sorry for Nucc or what. All I know is he is a rude, unreasonable waste of time. That's where he stands with me.

Good luck with your schooling Pam!
Don't forget to study the WORD of Life.

Take care sis.
Tim
Oh I'm sorry, I didn't realize you had gotten to see that side of him too. I wasn't around the boards that much at that time.

Thanks for the encouragement with school; its appreciated. Working full time and juggling this will be a challenge but I do have a good support system with my husband, friends and family.

Take care.
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Joined: November 27th, 2009, 3:51 am

October 21st, 2010, 2:25 am #10

I hear you. I gave up on Jay's a few months ago and now am done with Beckett's forum and the hate-filled people who post there.

For awhile I imagined myself having fun playing games with them, but eventually I realized that this is not fun at all.

I wish you much success and happiness in your life.









"Error does not become Truth because it is widely accepted; Truth does not become error, even when it stands alone!"
(Thanks Kristy)
that I can handle my self around people like Nucc and John et al but that board proved me to that I can't so time to leave like a lady before I spout off stuff I'd never be proud of the next day

I hope and your family are well and enjoying all of those sweet grand babies

take care.
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