With the indulgent of the form owner and the group. I need some authentic advice on women reaction to story below. And what should we do to make sure it not a sticky situation in the future with my female acquaintances.
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Here the sticky situation
I'm 26 and a college student. I know, I'm a little old for that, but I have really good reasons. I live with another guy, Miguel, who is 27 and has a full time job. We share a two-bedroom apartment and we're both straight, though he has a girlfriend and I currently don't. We have been very good friends for years, and take a lot of stuff for granted about each other, not the least of which is comfortable, casual nudity. Nothing gratuitous, but no hang-ups about modesty, either.
Anyway, Miguels parents came for a weeklong visit from New York, and we put them up at our place. He gave up his bedroom and bunked with me. We both sleep naked, and it wasn't anything we even discussed or considered ahead of time. We just slept naked together. His parents didn't mind in the least. In fact, I doubt they even noticed, as he was frequently naked first thing in the morning, and they had no reaction to that whatsoever. I'm sure they're very used to seeing him that way.
So the problem isn't between Miguel and me, or Miguel and his parents. It's his girlfriend. She hit the roof when she found out he was not only sleeping with another man, but sleeping naked with another naked man. She insisted that he spend those nights at her place, but he refused. That would have been very strange for his parents to stay at his apartment with me, while he left every evening to sleep somewhere else. So now she won't speak to me at all. She's insisting they talk this problem through, but Miguel doesn't understand what the problem is, so he's fighting her on it. I guess I should say he's ignoring her on it, because he thinks this is her problem, not his.
I don't know if I'm explaining this very well, so let me know if I should try again. Otherwise, can anyone tell me why his girlfriend is so upset? She's trying to get him to promise not to do this again when his parents come back in a few months, and he won't do that. What are we missing?
John-Paul
Well, this sounds like something more suited for "Dear Abby" but it would be my guess that with all the gay awareness these days, she is concern that two men sleeping naked together could encourage homosexual interest. I think this is silly myself, but I think some women would consider this as provocative as him sleeping with another woman.
What do the rest of you 'guys' think?