Funny how two faced people are on views of the body

Funny how two faced people are on views of the body

Joined: September 25th, 2005, 3:00 am

February 28th, 2011, 11:08 pm #1

I have been reading for a while the post on a couple different forums regarding children and freeballing and children sleeping nude and children seeing parents nude.
I am amazed how people view things. I say this because for example One family has house rules of no nudity in public spaces downstairs. You can fball sleep nude, streak from bedroom to potty nude boys and girls. They have rules for entering each others rooms etc. Personally I am all for this cause its teaches the body is nothing to be ashamed of. BUT the responses are you are crazy! boys seeing girls nude vice vera.
The other post was a guy was concerned his young daughter may see him nude while he was in his bed asleep. Some people agreed its normal for children to see randomly parents nude. Others were mortified god help us if a girl walked in on a naked dad! I even read post where men and women were ready to call the FBI if they heard of guys being in their own homes with same sex children in the nude. For example me and mine will often not have anything on before and after showers and yeah we have eaten breakfest this way. We dont touch one another or inappropriately in front of each other.. So whats this big deal?

Now here is what I find funny. The men and women who scream the loudest are known nude sleeprs, free ballers, attend nude beaches, and often probably do all kinds of adult private things on park benches or parked cars and etc. But simple minor stuff such as seeing a nude body is ready to fall the firing squad out. Kinda funny hugh?
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Nat
Joined: January 1st, 1970, 12:00 am

March 1st, 2011, 12:14 am #2

All I can figure is these are people who can not separate nudity and sex so when it comes to home situations they see it as an incestuous situation. To me nudity is one thing, sex is another. I'm more likely to get turned on by a sexily dressed woman than a nude one.



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Marv
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March 2nd, 2011, 3:42 am #3

I would say there is more sex that evolves from curiosity and sexy clothes than there is from nudity. A lot of clothes that are more of a tease than a cover up and you know that is is off limits, TV likes to tease they show you just enough of next week show hoping you will think you just can't miss it
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Nat
Joined: January 1st, 1970, 12:00 am

March 2nd, 2011, 3:56 am #4

Marv I've always said that. It's hiding something- and playing pee-a-boo games with it- that sexualizes it and makes it more alluring- the "forbidden fruit" thing.

A woman is more likely to get raped walking clothed in a city park than naked at a nudist resort.
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Jenn
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March 15th, 2011, 2:22 am #5

I have been reading for a while the post on a couple different forums regarding children and freeballing and children sleeping nude and children seeing parents nude.
I am amazed how people view things. I say this because for example One family has house rules of no nudity in public spaces downstairs. You can fball sleep nude, streak from bedroom to potty nude boys and girls. They have rules for entering each others rooms etc. Personally I am all for this cause its teaches the body is nothing to be ashamed of. BUT the responses are you are crazy! boys seeing girls nude vice vera.
The other post was a guy was concerned his young daughter may see him nude while he was in his bed asleep. Some people agreed its normal for children to see randomly parents nude. Others were mortified god help us if a girl walked in on a naked dad! I even read post where men and women were ready to call the FBI if they heard of guys being in their own homes with same sex children in the nude. For example me and mine will often not have anything on before and after showers and yeah we have eaten breakfest this way. We dont touch one another or inappropriately in front of each other.. So whats this big deal?

Now here is what I find funny. The men and women who scream the loudest are known nude sleeprs, free ballers, attend nude beaches, and often probably do all kinds of adult private things on park benches or parked cars and etc. But simple minor stuff such as seeing a nude body is ready to fall the firing squad out. Kinda funny hugh?
I am laughing as I write this because I know what you mean. Honestly, it's the main reason I participate in these forums - not for the wacko response/advice you get, but because there are people who get it. And on the (very) few occasions when I have mentioned anything about my boys going commando, skinny dipping, sleeping naked or anything similar I get "the look" that tells me the other person is horrified, shocked, whatever... I MUST be a bad parent because I didn't teach them to be ashamed. Seriously, and I know you have all read my rantings, but we are worried about seeing the human body - UNLESS that body is blowing up or getting shot or whatever.

I can't say I was always completely at ease - I wasn't. But I did try to be reasonable. Whats the point of underwear? So if they don't wear it, so what? Will anyone suffer? Same thing with swimming suits. Will swimming naked harm them in some way? Hasn't so far. And let's face it - if Disney included it in POLLYANNA how bad can it be? Sleeping naked...again, what's the drama? Seeing his brother or other boys naked - don't they have pretty much the same thing? Will it be that big of a shock? I seriously had to argue with their school to let them take showers after PE because other kids parents DIDNT WANT there kids to shower. Are you serious?

My boys go commando. They swim and sleep naked. Sometimes they eat breakfast naked or watch tv naked before they go to bed. They shower together sometimes and sleep together sometimes. If they want to put something on they do. If they dont, they dont. When they go for there physicals they have no problem stripping down and being in there altogether.

There grandmother isn't always thrilled by the freedom I allow them, but honestly - I am more concerned if they are good, caring people than what they wear in the pool or to bed. Go find out what all those kids are doing whose parents are SOOO hung up about all this trivial stuff.

And finally - yes my boys have seen bodies of the opposite sex. I am hoping that instead of being so insane to see them that they make stupid decisions that if they get that out of the way they will be in a better position to make good decisions. Yes, at there age some nudity is sexual - but not ALL nudity. I have also seen them look at girls in bikinis with (most likely) "impure thoughts" lol. They are boys after all...
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Nat
Joined: January 1st, 1970, 12:00 am

March 15th, 2011, 7:24 am #6

Well anybody who thinks teenage boys aren't going to think about sex just because girls wear clothes is very naive indeed! And these days with the internet it is totally impossible to keep nudity and porn from them. When I was a teen we had to trade girlie mags around- but these days kids have a whole cornucopia of nudes and porn right at their fingertips via the web. And if you look at teen forums- half the posts are about sex. And todays teens know ten times more about it than I did at their age!



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BlueTrain
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March 15th, 2011, 12:50 pm #7

I have been reading for a while the post on a couple different forums regarding children and freeballing and children sleeping nude and children seeing parents nude.
I am amazed how people view things. I say this because for example One family has house rules of no nudity in public spaces downstairs. You can fball sleep nude, streak from bedroom to potty nude boys and girls. They have rules for entering each others rooms etc. Personally I am all for this cause its teaches the body is nothing to be ashamed of. BUT the responses are you are crazy! boys seeing girls nude vice vera.
The other post was a guy was concerned his young daughter may see him nude while he was in his bed asleep. Some people agreed its normal for children to see randomly parents nude. Others were mortified god help us if a girl walked in on a naked dad! I even read post where men and women were ready to call the FBI if they heard of guys being in their own homes with same sex children in the nude. For example me and mine will often not have anything on before and after showers and yeah we have eaten breakfest this way. We dont touch one another or inappropriately in front of each other.. So whats this big deal?

Now here is what I find funny. The men and women who scream the loudest are known nude sleeprs, free ballers, attend nude beaches, and often probably do all kinds of adult private things on park benches or parked cars and etc. But simple minor stuff such as seeing a nude body is ready to fall the firing squad out. Kinda funny hugh?
What is the basis of your claim as stated in your last paragraph?
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Nat
Joined: January 1st, 1970, 12:00 am

March 15th, 2011, 3:13 pm #8

That didn't make sense to me either. In fact the whole post was rather strange.
I always wonder about people who pop up out of nowhere, start a topic and then just disappear.
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cool beans boi
cool beans boi

March 16th, 2011, 1:20 am #9

Freaky post man, here is a equally freaky response.
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Anyway, I will say this and please forgive me. I have such respect for Nat on a lot of things but it annoys me when he and others try to "desex" nudity.
To me there is nothing hotter than seeing a guy strip naked. I resent people like Jenn trying to ruin that for me.

There it is, I said it, just another opinion.

As far as freeballing...no thank you. I like the comfort and look of me and other guys in underwear.

yes yes I have an underwear fetish.

I know many find it a bit childish, but I feel that not wearing underwear it a bit immature.

Thanks for letting me vent
Chris
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Nat
Joined: January 1st, 1970, 12:00 am

March 16th, 2011, 2:27 am #10

OK Chris, we have heard you. I've heard you before, numerous times.
No point in debating this because each is entitled to their own preferences, opinions and fetishes.
You are the one who can't seem to accept this.




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