We had no trouble conceiving #1 when I was 38, now two years later we are having trouble conceiving #2. My day 3 FSH level was 15.2. Can't believe we might not have another. All we are doing at the moment is the fertility monitor, having lots of sex when it says to... will not do IVF probably since we are lucky enough to have one (and don't have $$ out the you-know-what).
I too have secondary Infertility- I had DD when I was 33 and 2yrs later had fsh of 14... same emotions and feelings- despair, sadness etc... but since I've found this board I really have some hope... you've come to the right place for support..
Does your insurance cover IUI?? that's what I'm currenty doing- 5 failed IUI's . I'm getting ready for my 6th IUI- 2nd with Injections. My RE won't approve me for IVF b/c he said I'd have just as good odds w/ IUI...